WE CREATE OUR REALITY. No fine print. No exceptions. No asterisk. I can’t imagine anyone reading those words and not being excited! All the misery, all the scarcity, all the struggle is our choice. Ok, maybe it’s not a conscious choice (yet), but it is still our choice. And if
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People ask me often, “How do I create a job I adore?” Boy, do I know this one well. Many of you know I owned a fairly successful marketing company for nearly 12 years. We had some great years and some challenging years, but overall the company thrived. What you may not know,
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Dear Boni, How do you deal with the chaos? It seems like changes are coming into my life in just about every arena. My business is growing but demanding I learn much more intensive bookkeeping practices, my home is being repaired and improved but demanding all kinds of old stuff
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I don’t know of a single adult who feels they had a father who really deeply and functionally loved them. Well, ok, I know of one… but not personally. I dissociated most of my childhood. My brothers have so many more memories than I. My first memory of my father
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Lately I’ve been hearing from people who are unhappy about where they work. One writes, “I picked my career almost 20 years ago because that was all I wanted to do. Lately it has transformed to something I dread. Not that the nature of work has changed, I still love
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Dear Boni, If this is all a dream, then it is up to us to attach our own meaning to it. And I think that is where I get stuck. Friends of mine with kids find meaning there, others find meaning making money, and some people let others decide what
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