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Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, First of

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So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. Okay, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things, or circumstances, you’re faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the

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Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

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Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

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Dear Boni, I realize I have a belief: “In order to cultivate compassion and to help people, I have to suffer their suffering.” Basically, I believe that by suffering I can be on the same frequency as other human beings and therefore be able to communicate to them. If I

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Attracting a loving partner is a dream of many. There is something quite wonderful in sharing love, caring, and intimacy with another human being. But many creators get stymied by the “action” step while creating love. For those of you who have read The Map, you already know that creating something

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The brutal death of George Floyd on May 25th 2020 by a white police officer was beyond discriminatory—it was barbaric and hateful—and it was indicative of the deep level of racism permeating the United States and the world.  It was this murder that began to wake people up on this

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