Dear Boni, I realize I have a belief: “In order to cultivate compassion and to help people, I have to suffer their suffering.” Basically, I believe that by suffering I can be on the same frequency as other human beings and therefore be able to communicate to them. If I

The law of attraction sounds like a pretty good deal, doesn’t it? You focus on money, love, and happiness, and your world is filled with money, love, and happiness! Then why doesn’t it work? Look around. Statistically, the vast majority of people in the U.S. are not happy with the amount

We are brainwashed. No…no one is suggesting we drink the kool-aid. Or are they? Every day we take on suggestions from others, which solidify into beliefs, which in turn not only color, but sculpt our world. I’ve been thinking about conscious creation for a long, long time. And one of

Starting over could’ve been my middle name. At 30 years old (already late to the “figuring my life out” party) and in the midst of pursuing a joing MBA/JD degree, I quit my trajectory in the direction of corporate law. Before I’d started law school, I had my doubts as

There’s absolutely no reason anyone should have negative impact on you. Period. But I’m the first to admit that might be easier said than done. It may take a while to rid yourself of the energy of toxic people but it is doable. What do you do if you have

It’s easy to say, “I create my own reality.” It’s another thing to actually take that knowing and consciously create what you want. Especially if you can’t seem to corral your thoughts. Negative thinking creates negative realities. You know it. You’ve watched it happen in your lives and the lives

Yesterday I was wondering about my style. It seems to change from year to year and from mood to mood. However my fashion fickleness aside, I often imagine an outfit I would love to be in. And yesterday I pictured myself in a black dress made of a flow-y fabric,