Dear Boni, If this is all a dream, then it is up to us to attach our own meaning to it. And I think that is where I get stuck. Friends of mine with kids find meaning there, others find meaning making money, and some people let others decide what

The only caveat to the truth that we create our own realities, is that we can’t control how it shows up. We can shift our vibration, thinking thoughts that feel good, changing the beliefs that stand in the way, but at the end of the day, the universe will deliver

It boggles many a mind. We live in an abundant universe—really, we do. Look at the grains of sand on the beaches, the leaves on the trees, and the new ideas that keep showing up long past the days when you thought there couldn’t possibly be any more unique thoughts

When we create the realities we desire, all is well with the world. We believe in our magic and our power and we couldn’t be more excited about our dreams and our future. But when we lose those very same realities we just took credit for creating, it’s more devastating

You “get it”—that you create it all. You’re super excited. Why, there are no limits to what you can create—to what you can impact! You wonder, “Just how far does my power reach?” And then you remember all the horrible realities that have manifested on this planet—and you think, “Did

It sucks when you hate your life—even when you hate part of your life. After you discover that you create your own reality, it can be doubly frustrating, because then you know that you are creating it—consciously or unconsciously. So, if you find yourself doing what you hate and you

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he