Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, First of

So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. Okay, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things, or circumstances, you’re faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

Attracting a loving partner is a dream of many. There is something quite wonderful in sharing love, caring, and intimacy with another human being. But many creators get stymied by the “action” step while creating love. For those of you who have read The Map, you already know that creating something

The brutal death of George Floyd on May 25th 2020 by a white police officer was beyond discriminatory—it was barbaric and hateful—and it was indicative of the deep level of racism permeating the United States and the world.  It was this murder that began to wake people up on this

We all can have a hard time letting go of the past. Whether it’s a lover that broke your heart, a job you “should have gotten”, or a triumph you want to relive, being stuck in the past never creates a happy future (or present, for that matter). It could

You want to create abundance—lots of money and other abundances as well. But there’s a nagging little voice in your head that whispers, “But what happens if I do become rich? Will my family and friends come out of the woodwork seeking to share in my newfound wealth?” This one