According to Lazaris1 each of us has a minimum of two guides or counselors “assigned” to us each lifetime—one male and one female.
Your higher self is the next highest aspect of who you are. They are not physical, but they are working closely with you this lifetime.
Your future self is the "you" that you will be in the future--tomorrow, next week, next year, etc. This self is physical but exists in another time. You have multiple future selves just as you have multiple possible futures.
One of the highest aspects in the unseen realm are those from the “angelic realm.” Angels are available all of the time for support, guidance, protection, and love.
Not technically an “unseen friend” but a new aspect of yourself each lifetime where you “store” all your experiences and beliefs.
Oftentimes loved ones who transition to the non-physical will act as guardians for the remainder of your lifetime.
Like your higher self, your soul is with you throughout all lifetimes and is a higher aspect than your higher self. Your soul is a feminine energy.
You have a different spirit each lifetime—your Spirit is your spark of life, passion, and aliveness. Spirit is a masculine energy.
The highest masculine energy of “all that is.”
The highest feminine energy of “all that is.”
But that’s ok. A body isn’t really necessary to love, to be loved, to help, to inspire, and to assist in change.
This list is not inclusive. While you have certain unseen friends with you for your entire lifetime, other friends will enter only when you are ready, and sometimes for specific purposes, such as mastering a skill or destiny.
“Dear Higher Self (Or Soul, Spirit, God, Goddess, etc.),
Please help me with _______________. Or…
I would like to heal _________. Or…
I’d like to create a life I love. Please assist me in doing that. Or…
Please help me gently discover and uncover my limiting beliefs, and help me to change them.
(Or any request, in your own words.)
To do this simply sit or lie down in a quiet and private place. Perhaps play some soft music. And let yourself relax. Let yourself drift. And when you are fully relaxed, imagine yourself in a beautiful place in nature. Imagine the trees, the sunlight or moonlight, the sounds, the breeze, the smells. And know you are safe.
Then allow the unseen friend of your choice to come and visit you in this space. Just sit quietly with this friend. Perhaps, you might even let this friend hold you. You can speak, listen, or simply be in the love and presence of this unseen friend. This can be a beautiful way to connect and begin to develop a relationship with your unseen friends.
Remember, your unseen friends won’t take responsibility for creating your life—that’s what you came here to do. But they will guide, support and assist you. And their help will make a difference. (But you do have to ask.)Get the Meditation
Sometimes it’s easier to connect with your unseen friends when someone helps you connect with the resonance of that unconditionally loving support.
Sometimes people ask, “How can these messages be from my unseen friends when a human writes them?”
These messages are co-written with my own unseen friends with the purpose of connecting you to your unseen friends. If you allow them to, they can open the door to an ongoing, deep and rich relationship with each of them.
Wishing you deep and loving connections with your own unseen friends,- Boni