Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, First of

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he

Everyone wants a wonderful love life. Yes, maybe there are a few out there who honestly don’t want a loving partnership…but those who do want it, want it to be epic. And the fact is, epic Love is ready and waiting for every single one of us…if we are willing

Attracting the love of your life is a dream of many. It was my dream, and it took many years for me to figure out how to create that love. But not a day goes by that I’m not grateful for the man who is now my husband. The good

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

People have been reading (and loving) “The Map”. And even though it is a complete practical guide to manifestation, questions still arise. Here are some of the most common: On Creating Your Own Reality Question: So, if I really believed this worked, I wouldn’t have to lock my doors, right?

So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. OK, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things or circumstances, you are faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the other hand