Another Valentine’s Day rolls around and those singles who long for love are emitting exactly the energy that will keep love away: sadness, yearning, and wishing for love but feeling oh-so-alone. “Well, how else should I feel,” you may ask, “when I am alone and surrounded by an entire culture

If you’re familiar with my book, The Map, you’ll remember that taking action is part of creating anything. “Wait”, you might say, “if I can create anything can’t I create things just falling into my lap and not having to take any action at all?” Very clever. Although theoretically, yes,

It’s inevitable. You will be faced with “half a dream” come true. You will say, “I created my dream, but…” As in: I met the man of my dreams… but he’s married. I was offered a job… but it pays half what I need. I met a friend who shares

Dear Boni, Is the Universe working on my dreams? Signed ~ Beautiful Dreamer Dear Beautiful Dreamer, Yes. The same way you could ask, as you send a document from your computer to your printer, “Is the computer working on my document?’” The universe has no choice but to work on

As the only girl in a family of boys, I thought the “Damsel in Distress” routine was the way to get what I wanted. But I learned the hard way that while victimhood worked okay for me as a kid, as an adult, it wasn’t quite as effective. What I

A 16-year-old friend of mine was fast asleep in my guest room when a miss-set alarm clock began ringing loudly in the middle of the night. The next day he told me how the sudden noise threw him into a state of panic, “I thought it was the scream of

You create your own reality. Whether you believe it or not, it is a fact. If you think it’s all a bunch of hooey… it matters not. You still create it all. On the other hand, knowing you create it all doesn’t really change anything either. I have known hundreds