As the only girl in a family of boys, I thought the “Damsel in Distress” routine was the way to get what I wanted. But I learned the hard way that while victimhood worked okay for me as a kid, as an adult, it wasn’t quite as effective. What I

A 16-year-old friend of mine was fast asleep in my guest room when a miss-set alarm clock began ringing loudly in the middle of the night. The next day he told me how the sudden noise threw him into a state of panic, “I thought it was the scream of

You create your own reality. Whether you believe it or not, it is a fact. If you think it’s all a bunch of hooey… it matters not. You still create it all. On the other hand, knowing you create it all doesn’t really change anything either. I have known hundreds

I remember the first time I read a book about conscious creation. I was flabbergasted. I had been a “you show it to me and I’ll believe it” kind of person. I thought you created things in your life by hard work and education and a few lucky breaks. I

Ok so hopefully by now you are so excited you can hardly stand it! You have begun to let it sink in that you, yes you, create every single bit of the world you call your own. Wow, that is amazing isn’t it? But simply knowing you create your reality

Would you want to perform your own brain surgery? Would you try to do your own root canal? Would you prefer to land the next jet you fly on? Of course not. Not unless you are a brain surgeon, endodontist, or jet pilot. Why? Because they do it better. Chances

Dear Boni, What can you do for me that I cannot do for myself? And if your own life is not exactly as you yourself wish it all of the time, what impels you to believe that you can help any one else “create” their personal reality? Cynical Dear Cynical,