Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

There is nothing scarier than being afraid you won’t survive. The next scariest thing to facing death, is being afraid you won’t survive financially—being petrified you will lose everything you own, and end up homeless, jobless, moneyless, and hopeless. I’ve felt this kind of panic, desperation, and despair—and it’s not

Dear Boni, I believe in the laws of attraction and keeping thoughts positive. I was first introduced to this through the Secret. One day a friend I hadn’t seen in 10 years said to me, “Everything you wanted you got”. I then realized it was true and I hadn’t ever realized it.

Lets face it—our lives would have been so much easier if our parents had taught us about conscious creation from the time we were little. We can’t blame our parents—most of them didn’t even know the law of attraction existed. But you don’t have to make that mistake with your

My best friend was a professional psychic. She made her living at it—and she was good. But by the time I became friends with her she had given up the profession that she was so skilled at. This was bad timing for me. I loved psychics. From my very first

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me