Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

Dear Boni, I believe in the laws of attraction and keeping thoughts positive. I was first introduced to this through the Secret. One day a friend I hadn’t seen in 10 years said to me, “Everything you wanted you got”. I then realized it was true and I hadn’t ever realized it.

Dear Boni, I’m a college student who wants to study hard and work hard to receive good grades but I don’t feel much motivation to get my work done. My dream is to sing and make music for a living. I’m a journalism major, and I know I love writing

Hi Boni, I recently became interested in the law of attraction. Then, I found your page! I was ecstatic to find a method to help me move past the negativity in my life. A few days later I felt like the darkness hit me (times 10!) and has put me

Dear Boni, I realize I have a belief: “In order to cultivate compassion and to help people, I have to suffer their suffering.” Basically, I believe that by suffering I can be on the same frequency as other human beings and therefore be able to communicate to them. If I

Dear Boni. Hello from Athens, Greece! I have read your articles for the past 5 years, and they are great. At this point of my life, I have a difficult situation to deal with and maybe you can help me. My intention is to create a relationship with a really