Starting over could’ve been my middle name. At 30 years old (already late to the “figuring my life out” party) and in the midst of pursuing a joing MBA/JD degree, I quit my trajectory in the direction of corporate law. Before I’d started law school, I had my doubts as

I love miracles! The only thing I love as much as experiencing them in my own life is hearing about the miracles others have allowed. Recently I received this email from a reader: “You probably won’t believe this. Back in March I lost one of my favorite necklaces that my

There’s absolutely no reason anyone should have negative impact on you. Period. But I’m the first to admit that might be easier said than done. It may take a while to rid yourself of the energy of toxic people but it is doable. What do you do if you have

It’s easy to say, “I create my own reality.” It’s another thing to actually take that knowing and consciously create what you want. Especially if you can’t seem to corral your thoughts. Negative thinking creates negative realities. You know it. You’ve watched it happen in your lives and the lives

Dear Boni, How do you deal with the chaos?  It seems like changes are coming into my life in just about every arena.  My business is growing but demanding I learn much more intensive bookkeeping practices, my home is being repaired and improved but demanding all kinds of old stuff

When my life was a living hell, my motivation to do the work was ending the pain—the pain of scarcity, the pain of confusion, the pain of disappointment. When I did “the work” my life changed. That was motivation enough. But for many people, motivation is tough to maintain—especially if

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with