So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. Okay, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things, or circumstances, you’re faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

There is nothing scarier than being afraid you won’t survive. The next scariest thing to facing death, is being afraid you won’t survive financially—being petrified you will lose everything you own, and end up homeless, jobless, moneyless, and hopeless. I’ve felt this kind of panic, desperation, and despair—and it’s not

Lets face it—our lives would have been so much easier if our parents had taught us about conscious creation from the time we were little. We can’t blame our parents—most of them didn’t even know the law of attraction existed. But you don’t have to make that mistake with your

My best friend was a professional psychic. She made her living at it—and she was good. But by the time I became friends with her she had given up the profession that she was so skilled at. This was bad timing for me. I loved psychics. From my very first

Another Valentine’s Day rolls around and those singles who long for love are emitting exactly the energy that will keep love away: sadness, yearning, and wishing for love but feeling oh-so-alone. “Well, how else should I feel,” you may ask, “when I am alone and surrounded by an entire culture