It’s easy to say, “I create my own reality.” It’s another thing to actually take that knowing and consciously create what you want. Especially if you can’t seem to corral your thoughts. Negative thinking creates negative realities. You know it. You’ve watched it happen in your lives and the lives

We’ve all had them – days that suck. Days that we wish we had never gotten out of bed let alone ever heard of “creating our own reality’”. All we want to do is pretend we had nothing to do with the day that just passed, and hope tomorrow is

Yesterday I was wondering about my style. It seems to change from year to year and from mood to mood. However my fashion fickleness aside, I often imagine an outfit I would love to be in. And yesterday I pictured myself in a black dress made of a flow-y fabric,

I remember sitting in the law library, studying for mid-term exams. My mother had recently died after a nasty battle with cancer, and I was wondering whether she had loved her life. I didn’t think she did. She loved her family, of course. But I don’t think she was in

Dear Boni, How do you deal with the chaos?  It seems like changes are coming into my life in just about every arena.  My business is growing but demanding I learn much more intensive bookkeeping practices, my home is being repaired and improved but demanding all kinds of old stuff

Lately I’ve been hearing from people who are unhappy about where they work. One writes, “I picked my career almost 20 years ago because that was all I wanted to do. Lately it has transformed to something I dread. Not that the nature of work has changed, I still love

Dear Boni, If this is all a dream, then it is up to us to attach our own meaning to it. And I think that is where I get stuck. Friends of mine with kids find meaning there, others find meaning making money, and some people let others decide what