Dear Boni, I have been amazed (in both big and small ways) that what I have intended to create has actually come to fruition. At least, I believe that it has. And, therein lies my question. How does one know when an opportunity arises that it is the one that you wanted to create?

The average person works 1,700 hours per year. Most people spend more hours working than at any other (conscious) activity they do. Work you hate is a life sentence. Work you love sets you free. Some people are lucky—they find a job they love early on and every day is

There’s absolutely no reason anyone should have negative impact on you. Period. But I’m the first to admit that might be easier said than done. It may take a while to rid yourself of the energy of toxic people but it is doable. What do you do if you have

It’s easy to say, “I create my own reality.” It’s another thing to actually take that knowing and consciously create what you want. Especially if you can’t seem to corral your thoughts. Negative thinking creates negative realities. You know it. You’ve watched it happen in your lives and the lives

People ask me often, “How do I create a job I adore?” Boy, do I know this one well. Many of you know I owned a fairly successful marketing company for nearly 12 years. We had some great years and some challenging years, but overall the company thrived. What you may not know,

I remember sitting in the law library, studying for mid-term exams. My mother had recently died after a nasty battle with cancer, and I was wondering whether she had loved her life. I didn’t think she did. She loved her family, of course. But I don’t think she was in

Lately I’ve been hearing from people who are unhappy about where they work. One writes, “I picked my career almost 20 years ago because that was all I wanted to do. Lately it has transformed to something I dread. Not that the nature of work has changed, I still love