Dear Boni,

I understand that we do affect everyone else with the vibrations we send out to the universe.

But does that mean other people’s negativity affects us?

Signed,
Wondering

Dear Wondering,

That is a really good question! Because we are all a piece of God and Goddess, and All That Is, yes, we each affect each other on some level.

But, there are a few things to keep in mind:

First, positivity is vastly more powerful than negativity.

Second, you have incarnated in a free will universe. This means you can decide whether you want to be affected by general negativity in your illusion (reality).

The best way to deal with a planet with such polarities as this one is to raise your own vibratory level so that negativity has no impact on you.

Third, there are those people in our lives whom we are more vulnerable to, who can impact us negatively far more than a stranger on the street. Why?

Because we have given them the ability to hurt us by opening our heart and mind to a trusting, loving relationship with them. This is why it is not a good idea to trust people who are untrustworthy.

And most important of all, by taking responsibility for our own lives, by taking our power back, opening to our gifts and talents, choosing and learning how to consciously create a life we absolutely love, we become not only a way shower for others who long to do the same, but the energy we flow assists all who are near us, whether or not we say a word.

It affects the plants, the animals, friends, family, even strangers. Those who refuse this higher vibration will likely find somewhere else to be, but that’s ok. They are on a Soul’s path which is perfect for them.

I hope this helps Wondering.

With love,