So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. Okay, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things, or circumstances, you’re faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the

I’ll never forget my first visit to a psychic. I was an emotional wreck. I had quit graduate school and had no idea what to do next, my mom had recently passed, my brother had suffered an industrial accident and lost his leg. And I was desperately trying to find

Dear Boni, I need your help desperately; I don’t know what I did wrong! All of a sudden I have been creating the opposite of abundance.  Money does not flow into my life like it did, and I am digging myself deeper and deeper in the hole. My finances are

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

Dear Boni, My stepfather passed away last week. I miss him very much. I’ve been reading about taking full responsibility for every aspect of my life. To me this means I’m responsible for (or had a part to play in) him getting cancer and the timing of his death. I’m

One day a friend and I set out on an adventure. We took a small boat from New Providence Island to Andros… an island I had never been to but was excited to see. Here’s what happened: The trip was supposed to take 35 minutes or so, by the charts.

There is nothing scarier than being afraid you won’t survive. The next scariest thing to facing death, is being afraid you won’t survive financially—being petrified you will lose everything you own, and end up homeless, jobless, moneyless, and hopeless. I’ve felt this kind of panic, desperation, and despair—and it’s not