It sucks when you hate your life—even when you hate part of your life. After you discover that you create your own reality, it can be doubly frustrating, because then you know that you are creating it—consciously or unconsciously. So, if you find yourself doing what you hate and you

Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with

When I first heard about the Law of Attraction I was gobsmacked (there just isn’t a better word for it). “What?” I thought, “We create our literal world?” I didn’t look for the quantum physics proof. I didn’t need it proven to me. Somehow, from someplace deep inside me, I

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully,

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he

I created my first million dollars very consciously. Yep, that’s right. I started with nothing and created a net worth of more than a million dollars using my mind and the law of attraction, in under five years. Well, technically I didn’t start with nothing—I started with $50. But it

We’ve all been there. Our life is fine—no big complaints. In fact, a lot to be grateful for—a roof over our head, people who love us, intelligence, health and an able body. And yet, we find ourselves struggling to be happy. What gives?  Why does happiness seem to be a