If you’ve realized that one of the major obstacles to getting what you want is wrapped up in feeling inadequate, not valuable, or somehow less-than, you are dealing with feeling unworthy. These feelings of unworthiness are what I call a “core belief” and can start forming as early as childhood.
[...]You love. Not only do you ‘love’. You LOVE. Your ability to love is profound. And that love can have incredible positive impact on others and on your world. Naturally you are going to want to do what you can to help others – especially when you see someone you
[...]Dear Boni, Please explain to me how I could have possibly created being born into a family that suffered with addiction and were both violent and abusive? I didn’t have beliefs or thoughts prior to all of this. Instead, my beliefs were formed because of this. We are born with
[...]Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he
[...]Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don’t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on.
[...]People have been reading (and loving) “The Map”. And even though it is a complete practical guide to manifestation, questions still arise. Here are some of the most common: On Creating Your Own Reality Question: So, if I really believed this worked, I wouldn’t have to lock my doors, right?
[...]Love—true, deep, committed love, seems illusive to many. Some have created partners but the relationship is less than ideal. Others have created unrequited love—one-sided love affairs ending far too soon. Still others wait, patiently or not, for true love to find them, while deep down, they fear it never will.
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