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Madonna has sold more than 300 million records worldwide and is recognized as the world’s top-selling female recording artist of all time by the Guinness World Records.  Her recent Madame X Tour was the eleventh concert tour in support of her fourteenth studio album.  Celebrating her 63rd birthday this month (August 16th), and the 35th anniversary release of her critically acclaimed True Blue album, she continues to amaze people on stage and off.

We all could learn a thing or two from her; no matter who we are or what we seek to create. No, you don’t want Madonna’s life (really, you don’t).

What you do want though, is your life (a life that is perfect for you) to manifest with grace, ease and spectacular success, like hers does.

How can you do that?

By realizing beneath every phenomenal success or dismal failure lies exactly the same causative factor: Beliefs.

How do I know what Madonna’s beliefs are? While I may not know every belief exactly, her reality shows what she must believe. For no one can create what is not within their belief system.

One of the ways you can discover beliefs is by the words you speak. And Madonna is no exception.

Here is what she says about her success and the nature of reality:

“I’m tough, ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me a bitch, okay.” And …

“That consciousness is everything and that all things begin with a thought. That we are responsible for our own fate, we reap what we sow, we get what we give, we pull in what we put out. I know these things for sure.” And …

“Never forget to dream.” And …

“I am my own experiment. I am my own work of art.”

Are those the words of someone who believes she is a victim? Or powerless? Or undeserving?

Absolutely not.

And here is what she says about her continued success despite her age:

“I am a survivor. I am like a cockroach, you just can’t get rid of me.” And …

“I feel just as hungry today as I did the day I left home.”

Madonna’s beliefs create her reality. Yours do too.

What do you believe about success? Love? Money? Health? Relationships?

Clue number one in discovering your beliefs:

What do you say about what you desire and about you?

I listen to people talk about themselves and their reality in disparaging terms all the time. Some of them know about conscious creation, others do not. And their very words are creating struggle, hardship, disappointment and pain.

Are yours?

Your Assignment:

Take stock of what words you say (or think). Anything less than wonderful, write it down. Uncover the underlying belief. Then change it.

Extra credit:

Assign a close friend to call you on your words which are not in alignment with your desires. And write them down. Discover the belief, and change it.

Remember…“Nothing changes – until you do.” ~ A well known and under-understood quote by my dear friend Lazaris.

Good wishes, my friends and fellow creators.

In joyous creation,

Changing your beliefs doesn’t have to be difficult, but it does take work.  Our Changing Your Beliefs Guided Meditation will make changing your beliefs a whole lot easier.  Based on the process in The Map, it only takes 20 minutes to make a huge difference in your world.  Remember, if you don’t change the beliefs that are holding your back, your reality will stay exactly the same.

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  • Blessed

    Hi Boni,

    I wanted to share something unrelated to this that happened today. I usually find a lot of little coincidences throughout my daily life — an ex of mine used to call these ‘universe winks.’ But today was a big one.

    I’m working out of somebody else’s office today, never been in here before. I was reading a book where they were talking about ‘not thinking’ about something as an illustration of the way our brains work: “For example, right now, put anything in your mind’s eye except a blue horse. Whatever you do—do not think about or see a blue horse. No spotted blue horse. No blue unicorn. No blue pygmy pony with a red-and-white striped saddle and a pink ribbon on its tail.
    Please keep not seeing a blue horse for the next sixty seconds.”

    So I looked up to try and not think about a blue horse, and right in front of me, I see a blue horse (actually, unicorn) keychain hanging on the wall. Right smack dab in the middle of my eyeline.

    I have no idea what it means, but I’ve been enjoying reading this blog since I discovered it a few weeks ago, and wanted to share this big universe wink with you.

    Thank you so much for your positivity and showing how to be in co-creation with the universe!

    • Dear Blessed,

      What a fun story! I think it means that you are powerful!!


      • Blessed

        Hi Boni,

        What a lovely, affirming interpretation! Thank you so much and all my love to you and yours.


        • Blessed

          Hi Boni,

          I wanted to update you on another thing that happened!!

          One of my key desires is to get my Green Card (Permanent Residency) in the US so I can pursue my dreams of being an actor (I can’t do it on my current specialized work visa.) There are only three paths to it that I know of, each with its own complications. But the sign today…

          As background: my cousin was talking about an hour ago how his wife’s (they just got married) Green Card is supposed to arrive in May.

          Then, I was just now practicing your advice from your latest blog post — take at least 10 minutes morning and evening to imagine your desire has already come true. I imagined it in detail, imagined the freedom to do what I really love, how each day would feel like play (haven’t imagined that level of happiness before ever!) and felt really uplifted and lighter.

          And within a minute of opening my eyes, I heard my aunt who I’m staying with telling my uncle that her daughter-in-law’s (my cousin’s wife’s) Green Card had arrived!! I ran out of my room and there it was, in her hands!

          Thank you so much for showing me this joyous creation process, Boni, it is thrilling to see the signs and recognize them and feel even more joy.


  • Thanks for all the information and insight into being a millionaire! I had an interesting experience last week. On our health website we sell nutritional supplements. Our very biggest orders run in the range of $400-$500. Last week we received an order for ten times that much from a stranger in Hong Kong. It was exciting, but a challenge. Suddenly we could not just accept a credit card (which could be “chargebacked”) but needed to set up a wire transfer from out of the country, we had to rush products in from the manufacturer in order to ship, we had to find a faster, more reliable way to ship. It was a fine look at how having more money means being responsible for more. I notice you and Madonna are willing to be responsible for many complex things!

    • Boni

      Hi Sally!

      Thanks for your comment… and congratulations on your success!

      You are right, having more power (in the form of money, love, health, success etc) does mean taking on more responsibility. However, remember, it is your choice as to how that extra responsibility affects you.

      You can choose to grow the dream with ease, elegance, success and at the perfect pace for you. You can ask for the information, resources and people to assist with your new challenges. You can hold the intention for the growth, success and/or changes to come more quickly or more slowly.

      I think we all fear success more than we fear failure. And fear of the consequences is the top reason. Thanks for bringing this up so I could touch on the topic!!

      much love,

  • nanette


    • Boni

      Absolutely Nanette! But we are ALL gifted!! The trick is moving forward into creating a life we love with those gifts!!


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