Everyone wants a wonderful love life. Yes, maybe there are a few out there who honestly don’t want a loving partnership…but those who do want it, want it to be epic. And the fact is, epic Love is ready and waiting for every single one of us…if we are willing

Dear Boni, There is a man in my life whom I adore, although he has some traits that I find troublesome—namely his lack of commitment. How do I get him to be more attracted to me and ultimately, commit to me? Signed, Unlucky in Love _____________________________ Dear Love, First of

So…you have some things, or circumstances, or people in your life that you hate. Okay, maybe hate is a strong word, but even if you dislike these people, things, or circumstances, you’re faced with a conundrum: On one hand, you know you create your own reality, and your very dislike of anything creates more things to dislike. On the

Dear Boni, Can I choose my future husband—even thought this man doesn’t live in the same city as I do, we haven’t met in person and he doesn’t know I exist? With gratitude, Hopeful _________________________ Dear Hopeful, Sorry to dash your hopes, but no, you cannot choose your future husband

Another Valentine’s Day rolls around and those singles who long for love are emitting exactly the energy that will keep love away: sadness, yearning, and wishing for love but feeling oh-so-alone. “Well, how else should I feel,” you may ask, “when I am alone and surrounded by an entire culture

Attracting a loving partner is a dream of many. There is something quite wonderful in sharing love, caring, and intimacy with another human being. But many creators get stymied by the “action” step while creating love. For those of you who have read The Map, you already know that creating something

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he