The only caveat to the truth that we create our own realities, is that we can’t control how it shows up. We can shift our vibration, thinking thoughts that feel good, changing the beliefs that stand in the way, but at the end of the day, the universe will deliver

You “get it”—that you create it all. You’re super excited. Why, there are no limits to what you can create—to what you can impact! You wonder, “Just how far does my power reach?” And then you remember all the horrible realities that have manifested on this planet—and you think, “Did

I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully,

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don’t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on.

Life is messy.  Oh it would be nice if it were all “Leave it to Beaver” polite and “Norman Rockwell” portraits. But it’s not. We screw up. We do things we regret. And others do some pretty nasty stuff to us. People can be unconscionable, rude, calculating, controlling, hurtful and shaming.

Dear Boni, I understand that we do affect everyone else with the vibrations we send out to the universe. But does that mean other people’s negativity affects us? Signed, Wondering Dear Wondering, That is a really good question! Because we are all a piece of God and Goddess, and All