I knew it would happen. Once I announced that my marriage had ended I knew there would be those who would be disappointed and disillusioned with my work (and me). I guess that’s one reason I waited until I was strong, and (mostly) healed to make the news public. Thankfully,

Thoughts are powerful. My friend Claire knows this firsthand. Claire was livid that her husband of 25 years was stingy to a fault and would help only with the bare minimum. He’d get up in the morning and make his side of the bed—leaving hers a mess. “Why can’t he

Dear Boni, I am a girl from Asia, and I have spent my last few years studying in America. During this time, I found out that I am more attracted to white men instead of men from my own country (not just because of the look, but also the culture,

Dear Boni, I have a neighbor who washes non-stop with a very loud washing machine. Talking to her does not help. I would love to create a quiet, peaceful surrounding but I don’t know how to let go of that feeling of anger and helplessness when the noise goes on.

Life is messy.  Oh it would be nice if it were all “Leave it to Beaver” polite and “Norman Rockwell” portraits. But it’s not. We screw up. We do things we regret. And others do some pretty nasty stuff to us. People can be unconscionable, rude, calculating, controlling, hurtful and shaming.

People have been reading (and loving) “The Map”. And even though it is a complete practical guide to manifestation, questions still arise. Here are some of the most common: On Creating Your Own Reality Question: So, if I really believed this worked, I wouldn’t have to lock my doors, right?

Love—true, deep, committed love, seems illusive to many. Some have created partners but the relationship is less than ideal. Others have created unrequited love—one-sided love affairs ending far too soon. Still others wait, patiently or not, for true love to find them, while deep down, they fear it never will.