Up till recently I always thought that I had to do things a certain way, that there was no way to change my life. The last few years have been pretty crazy, my parents divorced, I got my first job, and I have been going from being a teenager to a financially independent adult. None of this would have happened if I hadn’t discovered with the help of good friends that I had a choice in life. Things do not have to be accepted because of others choices or decisions. That I had the option to make any change I want to. The only requirement was that I had to consciously make an effort to change myself and my perspective on life. This is the hardest thing of all to do, and I struggled with it terribly, and still do! I still have areas of my life where I need to work majorly on. But I am very blessed right now, through using techniques from the “Secret”, this site, and the encouragement of wonderful friends to take steps in the right direction. Right now I have a job I love, I am financially secure (though there is always room for growth! lol), and I now am living in an apartment with one of my best friends since childhood. All because I consciously chose and made decisions in these aspects of my life. I enjoy learning and growing in the process of creating wonders in my life every day, and one of the best things is helping others along this same path! You can choose to accept the way things are and lack of control. Or you can choose to take the reins and gallop away (sometimes leaving your old life and beliefs in the dust). My wish for all is the enjoyment of choice! :) Blessings!